PostHeaderIcon Happy 1 month!

Yes, finally my Shib boy is a month old! So fast eh? And yes, when its time for him to turn to 1 month, he is getting more cranky at night. I was having a hard time with hubby to put him to sleep as he kept crying. I breastfeed him and he seems to be so agitated. Why is that so? Can anybody tell me why my baby sometimes feel so annoyed and uneasy when he sucks my nipple? Is it because there is no more milk flowing? I also tried to see if he had colic and rubbed his tiny tummy with tha minyak telon but he was still crying. I was trying to figure out what is wrong with him but i couldn’t find the answer.

Even though i tried to change his position or gave him another side of my breast, he still found it uncomfortable. That made me damn stress. And then, i told hubby to feed him with the formula milk, lagi he reject and kept crying. I had to coax him nicely and at last, he finally gave in and drank the milk through the bottle. SIGH!!!

THis morning, he was feeling good cause i breastfeed him on and off between 12 am to 10 am. But when its time for me to feed him with the formula milk, he cried again and i had to coax him again until he finally gave in to me and drank the milk. Fuyoh. Ni macam wa pengsan lei. I wanted him to accept both so that i wont have a hard time if i were to go back to work by January.

And another thing, he likes to look up either at the ceiling or at certain area and i tried many times to get his attention by talking to him and made him look down by selawat 3 times. Yesterday was the worst and i think as though he was looking at ’something’ and thus made all of us cant sleep at all. Lucky my mum and hubby was there to recite some prayers at Shibly and alas, he slept. I got scolded by mum because…ehem, no one actually did any prayers at home. You know lah, baby kan sensitive but OK lah, i tried not to think negative lah. Tawakkal aje lah pada Allah.

Ah..pandai eh? Dah macam gini nak step tawakkal pada Allah. Kalau baby takde apa2, tak ingat tuhan. Hur hur hur.

By the way, i always standby to go through all this lah. Tu belum Shibly sakit ke hapa ke merengek all the way. Dia baru merengek sikit aje i dah kanchong seh. Haiz….but pahalakan jaga bayi yang sakit? Hmmm..

Ok lah, let’s take a peek at Shib boy when he was sleeping soundly…hur hur hur…

Bukan main lagi mulut dia menganga bila tidur. Heheheheh! (Mattress and pillow sponsored by AliXara)
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So innocent….

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Ok ni mulut dah tutup.

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Then next, let’s take a peek at Shib boy when he had his shower. (The small bath tub sponsored by Daniyalmomma) Saaapp….macam Baby Artis Fofular seh main sponsor2. LOL!

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The daddy mandikan Shib boy and the mummy sibuk snap the pics..

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Muka ada manyak curious????

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I love you Shib boy!

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Frankly speaking, i am scared to go through all these baby crying non stop or baby being cranky all day or baby sick and all but i know that I have to go through it soon. I hope I can be strong to overcome all this. And oh please do give me some tips and advice about it ok? Thank you all for your support and advice.

10 Responses to “Happy 1 month!”

  • effa says:

    darling, its normal lah baby to get cranky and cry for no apparent reason..all they need is assurance frm u so that they feel safe..kadang2 memang stress cuz kita tahu tahu apa silap kita baby asyik nangis..when he cried, just pick him up, hug him,give comforting words and maybe baca2lah doa2 yg tahu..then sing some songs..it works for me..yg penting kena byk sabar..my temper pun went off few times when arian still baby..biasalah kata first time mother

  • effa says:

    and shibly mintak kena gigit dgn aku! nak romos!!!!

  • ariesseira says:

    eh babe..
    dun worry it happens..
    i was also kancheong masa Ayubi dulu..
    n yes betul kata Effa..talk to Shib boy..
    Must relax and be patient becoz babies..
    dia react to our voices..
    n yes jgn kasi dia tgk atas.. hmmm my cousin last time like that n pasal we were ignorant about d rationale behind it.. we paid fer it.. so if shib boy tgk atas.. cover his eyes n selawat.. insya allah.. eh babe one more thing.. pass me yer hp no.. mail me can =)
    take care n enjoy motherhood k.. heheheh shib boy so fair lar!! look like tyler eh!

  • smiley :) says:

    don worry…
    it’s normal for baby to merengek coz once they passed the stage, we mummies gonna missed those moments.

    take-care, may ur boy grow up to be one anak yg soleh, Insya’allah.

    **pst..mummy dia tak merengek ;) hehehe

  • shireen says:

    Like all mummies and be it no.1 ker no.2 ker no.3 ker aku tetap kancheong babe…kalau aku da lama aku passing kat harsben.heeee

    chin up..its just a phase :)
    you can do it mummy N@t!!

  • nana says:

    kiut nye!!! nat leh aku kpo2 visit kau tak? aku nak romos baby!

  • marini says:

    hey nat! muka dia cute seh, bibir so sexy ehehehe….

  • TwinKz@Farah says:

    You gave birth!!! Dda 1 mth pun! Congrats hun!

    Don’t worry it’s normal. I experienced it with MIrza too. Ask Aries, almost every other day i was sms-ing her. It will get better after the 2nd to 3d month, insyaallah!

    Ya, selawat & prayers are always good. Don’t mean to preach but you’re right babies are sensitive babe. Trust me, we have 1st hand experience on that!!

    But Shibly is soooo cute!!! I know someone back then with the same name and he’s quite a looker so your boy is already there. :) )

    take care!

  • daniyalmomma says:

    tips ehk?? hm.. meh aku pikiak ehk.. for me i had my mom’s help as i was still staying with her then.. so i observed lar.. normally.. when Daniyal dah abis mandi her practise is minyak telon banyak2 kalau bole satu badan.. LOL.. then my son kat rumah baby2 rompers yg pendek2 sume tak main.. i eva asked jugaklah kenapa tak pakaikan since i bot quite a few.. mom ckp budak2 ni kalau sejok tey will cry n cry n cry.. so its always good to wear long pants n shirts at home.. maybe betol jugaklah Nat sebab Daniyal tak berapa cranky sgt under my mom’s care.. balik je Punggol i langgar perintah so dia cried non-stop.. den telon satu badan, baju n seluar panjang… ha! stop gak dia cry.. probably sejok lah tu.. maybe u wana try??
    kalau sal benda benda kat rumah.. standard lah.. mana2 mesti ada lagi bb sensitif.. tapikan kalau dia cry mcm nak rak (sampai takde suara) and at a certain timing almost evridae then there’s a cause to worie.. if not then normal lah tu.. asalkan u noe susu cukup.. tido cukup.. then nothing major lah..
    good luck!
    hehe..

  • nora says:

    bulatnyerrrr..
    gripewater standby very good!
    actually can start giving plain water..
    i gave my son little bit of gripewater mixed with plain water..insyallah tdo nyenyak..kekadang masuk angin la..and…bacakan fateha 3x pat ubun2 dier biler dia tdo

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