3:16 pmWhat else to blog?
Ok, i hope you guys can bear with me at this moment. Kata orang, kalau dah nak dekat kawin, asik nak blog pasal kawin aje, then when you are already married, asik nak blog pasal marriage life aje. Now then I dah give birth, asik nak bebual pasal anak aje.
Really lah, sometimes you don’t realise that your topic may bore others but that is life. Kalau dah kena hate tag, confirm blog pasal hate taggers kan? So i am trying to balance my stories here so that I wont get carried away about Shibly’s stories all the time. Ok?
Today is day 12 and I think I am still struggling to understand the life of motherhood. I should count myself lucky because both my mother and mother in law has been very very helpful. My mother will come and sleep over at my place and her duties is to cook for my confinement food and my mother in law will urut and sengkak for me. Both mothers has been co-operative by helping me with all the housework. So not much stress but still, i have to admit that i do have that post natal blue especially when my breast start to engorge or whenever Shibly woke up and start to sek sok sek sok looking for my tetek.
I called Shibly the tetek boy because he look damn cute when he is looking for the tetek. Whoever carry him when he is thirsty sure will start to laugh looking at his mouth and yep, he does look pitiful when he is looking for the tetek milk. I wanted to stop breastfeeding but whenever i looked at his face, tak sampai hati seh. Macam sedih gitu nak sengaja stopkan breastfeeding.
And the saddest part, my husband has to go for his reservist for 2 weeks this morning. What a time eh to go for reservist? I told him if can please come back everyday larrrrrrrrr….but if only he is allowed to do so. Now i have to get both my mother and mother in law to take turn sleeping over at my place.
I wont know how long I should breast feed Shibly. If this continues on, that means i have to really abort my intention to start smoking. Damn huh? Yah i know it sounds stupid to start smoking back after taking a long break of 9 months. Might as well quit terus kan? But not for me seh. I quit for a moment because i pandang Shibly, bukan pandang belakang. Heeee. Then if i breast feed him till next year, i am very the susah nak lepak2 dengan members after work sekejap. Nanti asik shiok chit chatting, tetek start bengkak lagi. Haizzz. Abih kalau nak go shopping, then if Shibly nak tetek, dah aku nak kena mencacah cari tempat nursing room to give him the milk. If i dont give him my tetek milk, nanti bengkak. Then the baju i have to wear must be comfortable for me to open and close my tetek. Heheheheeh…aiyoh,… must it be like that?
Being a mother must really be a mak-mak abis punya ke pe? Im still lost and yeah, im still learning. Kadang2 macam tak leh take it seh. Tapi i want baby lah, but dont really want to coop up with all these baby’s stuffs. Can or not like that?
But really lah, whenever i look at him, i always promise to myself that I will be a good mother. Insyallah.
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aku lagi eh! ahah free sangat tau everyday check blog kau!
by all means talk abt shibly!i don’t mind haha..bulat eh dia!
hmm..take one thing at a time nat..im sure as time goes by ..you feel better ..insya allah
Comment by lynn maharet — November 5, 2007 @ 4:41 pm
Ala aku pun selalu ckp pasal anak aku gak…
Anak pergi, anak balik, baby A pergi, Baby A balik, lol.
Walau macam mana pro aku pun, tetap aku takut time nak beranak, tak kira anak 1st or 3rd sakit dia sama oiii. Lol
Comment by Crab — November 5, 2007 @ 5:13 pm
Dat’s part n parcel of parenthood….
Comment by noormanX — November 5, 2007 @ 5:24 pm
hey there!
i hope you like the bb basin that i bot for u..
niwae.. Shibly dah ada banyak changes even tho baru 12 hari..
if u intend on breastfeeding, lotsa sacrifices lor.. i cume breastfeed 6months je.. if not for shiftwork and demands at werk at that time i wouldn’t give up breastfeeding.. cos i like the bonding sessions.. cume bila nak shop2 kat luar ada susah sikit lor.. kena carik nursing room and be prepared to make a dash for it.. esp those yg private cubicle..
u take care aites.. insyallah everything will turn out fine.. the initial part is the most painful of all but hey! u have both ur parents to lend a helping hand..
so.. dah slim balik lah ni kalau dah hari2 kena urot.. hehehe..
Comment by daniyalmomma — November 5, 2007 @ 6:12 pm
I luv baby stories so I REALLY DO NOT MIND you blogging about Shilby
I like it when you call him the tetek boy..haha..ni mesti da melekat habis ah dengan kau n@t. You’re lucky to have both sets of mothers with you. At least tak la you penatkan.
And about being a good mother I’m sure you will be babe
Comment by shireen — November 5, 2007 @ 10:29 pm
eh sorry terspell nama anak ko salah dahhh..sorry hor Shibly..maafkan unty shir :p
Comment by shireen — November 5, 2007 @ 10:30 pm
lynn: takpe..aku suka ko dtg sini byk2 kali.. hehhe…and yes..im still coping…thanks for ur morale support!
crab: hhehe..aiyoh..tak tau…skrg lah masa2 nye aku nak lihat kegementaran ko..sib baik aku nye dah habis! heheheh
abg man: saaaappp!! kerja kappa? amacam case? ada yg menyusahkan tak i nye case tu? selamat mengover ye? cover kerja i tu baik2. hhehehe… and ya lar..tt’s part and parcel of parenthood.
daniyalmomma: yes babe! thank you so much. sungguh berguna basin mandi tu. hari-hari Shibly mandi dgn basin tu tau. hhehehe…and ya lar..im lucky lah dua2 mummy tolong aku. but i dont want to be so kudut like last tim. i like my pregnancy figure. if can nak naik lagi! hehehe
shireen: sib baik ko cepat2 rectify spelling nama anak aku. hhehehh…ok..unty shir di maafkan. a’ah..tetek boy cute eh? tapi if dah besar tak cute ah panggil tetek boy. lol!
Comment by natsuki — November 6, 2007 @ 8:44 am
u hang on beb!! im sure ur sacrifices in breastfeeding will pay off..jz look at shibly..he’s so the tembam!! hehe..
Comment by suhaida — November 6, 2007 @ 3:51 pm
babe dun be so negative la. there are so many bf-ing moms out there unfortunately i’m not one of them coz i gave up waaayyy too easily. i so envy mom who could bf you know.
why not when you wanna lepak with your friends you pump out your susu first la. and there’s oways mothers room in most shopping centres or give him susu in the car.
you can do it one. jgn give up too easily nanti menyesal like me tak sudah one
Comment by ekyn — November 7, 2007 @ 10:41 am
hahahahahha wah wah wah the first part very soo the familiar! *wink* well honestly that’s always what aku think ah! hahahahhaha betul apa!
anyway….
aku belum belikan baby Shibly kau anything yet. sebelum aku beli apa kata kau bilang aku apa kau nak?? NAK BRANDED BAJU BABY TAK??? heheheheheh mana tau kan! hahahahhahaahaha
aku cuma can offer OLD NAVY & BABY GAP… hehheheh
Comment by Trina — November 7, 2007 @ 12:43 pm
suhaida: ya i tengah still hanging on ni..hehehe. and a’ah..i also geram to see his tembamness tapi if dia melalakness tu i tak sanggup ness youuu..
ekyn: u dah give up? e’eh..i also almost tau. esp during the 3rd day of breastfeeding. my dunia tiba2 jadi gelap and terumbang ambing seh bila i dapat tau bf is not easy. tapi i tabahkan semangat ni. ni tengah menabah ni ha..heheheh..
trina: kalo ko nak belikan yg branded pun apa salahnya? old navy and baby gap pun kira ada nama peee…orang nak kasi aku menerima aje…heheheh…by e way, jgn lupa itu LV nye cerita ye. kalo ada org nak beli bilang aku dulu tau!
Comment by natsuki — November 7, 2007 @ 2:41 pm
nat..aku baru tau kau nyer site baru ni..kental kan aku. ni maknanya aku baru tengok gambar shibly..hehehe. abt bf-ing, aku stop during the 2nd month. anak aku tu tak reti lah sbb dah too dependable on botol.
Comment by dee — November 12, 2007 @ 3:47 pm
psst…baru dpt drop by sinie….anak ko memang mcm tyler…bulat!! hehe take care ok!! *hugs n kisses*
Comment by Rieta — November 12, 2007 @ 5:51 pm
Nat!!! You’ve given birth rupanyeee! Ku sungguh lambat bertapak2 .. anywa CONGRATS gurlfren!!!! You son’s name is so stylo mylo gitu .. and he’s soooo cute laaaaa … gerammzzzz …
abt the smoking part hor .. mak tak nak advise yg bukan2 ehehhehe .. take care babe and welcome to motherhood!!!! *muaks!*
Comment by VM — November 15, 2007 @ 1:24 pm
dee: oh u stop during the 2nd month? hehehe…bagus lah gitu anak ko dah independent nak susu botol. senang skit lah ko. hehehe and yes, memang ko kental. baru skrg tau aku ada blog eh? hmph!
rieta: hello babe! hehehehe…thanks for dropping by ye. miss you! muacks!
vm: hehehehe….no problem lah vm. and thanks for dropping by. ya lar..baby memang cute and very the geram horr…muacks!
Comment by natsuki — November 16, 2007 @ 4:26 pm
quit terus lah, mamar. breastmilk is good for your baby and plus, your health also matters, mah?
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