Corrections and collections
Before you guys jump into another conclusions, let me correct my very poor english grammar and sentences.
I know that every married couple will face problems with their marital affairs. But what i was trying to say was, i cant blog about “ehem ehem” marital affairs problem because it concerns to one of my family members. It will be embarassing to tell but sometimes, when we are too angry, we will just have to lash it out in our blog.
Anyway im glad that at least i know that i have good friends to give me encouragement and comforting words to soothe my feelings. You know who you are and thank you soooooo much! I just feel that April is not a good month for me. I dont blame April and i dont blame on the situation. In fact, i dont blame anyone or anything.
Late March, my dad came to me and sought for help to stay at my place with his wife and his step son. That was the hardest decision for both hubby and me to decide. It is OK for me to let my dad stay with me. I welcome him with an open arms but……..not to his wife and his 23 yr old son who is not working at all. I cannot let that unemployed boy or man or guy to be the king at my place when everyone of us has left to work early in the morning. Until now, the decision is left with no answer. I am still discussing it with my dad. You see? It drags till end of April tau!
Early April, i took half day leaves to visit my auntie who was critically ill at ICU. It saddens me to see her conditions because i cant remember when was the last time i visited her. I cant remember when was the last time i could hear her talking. On 22 April 2008, she passed away. I was at work having my breakfast when i heard the news. I left the office thinking i will be granted compassionate leaves and only to find out that there is no compassionate leaves at all OK? Even if my parents were to go away one day, we have to take our own leaves eh? Macam pantat kan? Yea, yea, government bodies. No compassionate leaves.
Mid April, Shibly was down with fever when he had his jabs. And mind you, he had it for almost 4 days tau. I had to take leaves and take care of him. Its not easy to take care of sick baby. It pains me when Shibly cried because the heat was too much for him. After he recovered from fever, he developed rashes all over his body. I freaked out when i saw the rashes because i am sooooo bloody scared that he may be infected with HMFD or worst still, chicken pox. My first thought was, “oh my, please dont tell me that this will be time where i had to stop breastfeed him?”.
Luckily, it was just a normal rashes and he got back to his normal self after the rashes has gone. So happy!
Formula D? Did you go and support Formula D? I didnt. The weather was damn hot and i’d rather be at home with Shibly. My mum came that Sunday and it was good to have her around whilst the hubby and his family went to Formula D for the sake of collecting his car back.
Someone stroke 4D and won $10K. Oh how i wish i won that money. Dont ask me who because it was not me or my hubby or Shibly. LOL!!
All i can say now is im broke. Maybe its time for me to try luck and back to gambling. LOL!
I think i missed out few topics to blog but that shall wait. Will be back soon!

all will be good for u dear insyaallah! dun be despair k. there will always be up and downs in life. hugs!
Hope everything is Ok with you *Hugs*
*gulps*
compassionate leave ada tau.. but only for immediate family mbrs..
lucky Shib dah oki.. slalunye rashes develop after fever.. if i’m not wrg doc pernah ckp its normal and also rashes are the first sign to show that fever period is over.. smtg like dat lah..
now daniyal oso having fever.. and as i’m writing this, dia dah berak cair for abt 6times.. and worst, pantat dia melecet.. so he will cry everytime cebok and pakai drapolene.. sighhhh… sedih hati hamba.. later see doctor hor and treat for diarrhoea + fever.. sob sob..
to effa: ya true. thanks baby. hugs.
to crab: hug hug to you and to hulk! heeeheheh…
to shila: i checked w kak pah. dia kata immediate family members pun takde. tt time one of kita nye staff tak happy pe pasal dia kena amik her own leaves bila bapak dia mati. sigh.
to shila: oh by the way, cepat lah pergi doktor. kesian kan daniyal…sob sob…aku macam terasa anak aku plak yg sakit. i pray tt daniyal akan cepat sembuh ok? hugs!
hello, nat.
i hope things will get better for you. i also have all these ‘negative’ days but nanti later, happy pulak so don’t worry hor. life ni macam wheel.
i also hope that your chubby shibly is getting better now!
hey babes,
april also not good mth for me lah, banyak cubaan also. sighhhhhh……….
chin up ok, may will be a better mth for you and me
insyallah
harlow sweet! life is full of bitter sweet.. everything is gonna be ok.. insya allah.. i almost got burnt during the FD.. but it was fun to see something so familiar.. LOL
tks Nat.. & SELAMAT HARI BURUH! LOL!
abt the compassionate leave tu kan nanti gue do the investigation and update u thru email ok.. gue akan inspect itu govt instructions manual.. hehehe.. kalau betol takde apa lagi Nat sumbangkanlah ke arah staff suggestion scheme.. LOL..
alhamdulillah now daniyal dah getting better..
Hello…
Hope things are better for u for now…everyone has their own phase of life…today your day..who knws tomorrow or soon will be my day (so direct translate eh hahaha)…
Do gimme a call so we can meet up since I not sure when u available…missing u gf…
to saudari lee: hello! yah thank you. Shibly dah fully recovered.
to ninie: yes, yes, may will be better for us! hugs.
to my luv: heheeheheh! sempat ye!! so sempat nak chui payung biru and that heart. heeeeeeeeee!
to shila: now u know already eh? bloody fool kan? grrrr!
to sarina: hey babe. ya la. dah lama tak lunch together. will call u soon to meet up for lunch k? miss you too.