11:42 amI feel Sorry…
for my dad…..
On Saturday night, my kid bro called me up and told me that my dad was very ill but refused to go to the doctor. He wanted me to call my dad up and persuade him to see doctor immediately.
I managed to persuade him finally and off he went to Alexandra A&E. The reason i told him to go A&E immediately was because he complained saying that his head and hand feel very numb and he cannot feel anything. When he reached at the hospital, he has to be warded on that night cause it seems that his illness was quite critical.
At last we found out that my dad has diabetes and was in a serious stage already. He almost got stroke and now is under observations. My poor dad. I cried and cried thinking about his condition.
My cekik darah dad who used to stay at my place before he remarried. My cekik darah dad who used the softener as dishwashing liquid and gives me headache everytime he used my kitchen.
Although my parents are divorced, i never failed to bring them out together as one family. This picture was taken before my dad was married with his new woman. But still no chance for both of my parents to be together. But ok lah, i am thankful that they are like bestfriend now. 
If only he choose not to remarry, he is still staying at my place till now.
And for the FIRST TIME, i met my dad’s step childrens. It was a big DUH but i still got to FAKE my smile. Irritating and so menyampah i know but no choice lah eh?
How can that woman not know that my dad ada diabetes? I know lah its all God’s will but i cannot accept it how that woman took care of my dad all these while? Its been like until SERIOUS STAGE of diabetes? What has she been doing? She should have suspected earlier everytime my dad complained that he was sick what? Kannina. All this while, my dad has no other illnesses except for asthma. Not until when he stayed with that woman, suddenly he got diabetes?
Before i proceed with all the vulgarities, i’d better stop now. Im sorry but i am not a nice person as what you think. To make it understandable, she is not nice too at the first place. I know not all stepmums are evil but she belongs to one of them. And yesterday was the first time she throw her TANTRUM at my kid bro and told him off that my siblings are so FAKE in front of my dad. At last eh she revealed how attitude she was. Orang kalau jahat macam gini lah, cannot hide. Satu hari mesti nampak jugak dia punya jahat. Very rude!
And yesterday was Father’s Day eh? Kesian my dad. Haiz.
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N@t
Your Dad’s a nice person.. I still remember he cooks for us mee goreng.. Malu tau satu lelaki masakkan perempuan.. Hehehe
And your mom….pun sama baik.. I still remember our girl’s talk at your Pink’s house then you went all emo….
Hopefully your dad’s get better soon.
Ikthiar can go berubat also.. As long he can get better.
Comment by Crab — June 16, 2008 @ 2:00 pm
to crab: WAh, ko masih ingat suma itu? heheheh. Girl’s talk at Pink house eh? lol! ya. aku kan mmg emo momo. thanks for the wishes and thanks for the kind offer. will consider it and discuss with my dad.
Comment by natsuki — June 16, 2008 @ 3:07 pm
to crab and Nat. wah girls talk? best nyeeee! miss that moments i had with my gf
and NAt darling, its ok to feel that way towards ur step siblings/step mum. i used to be like that when my dad remarried. i hated her to the core. i mcm baby buat tantrum depan dia pun ada. buruk kan baby ganyut..hahaha but years dah passed on, we found her to be very nice. and my step siblings pun rapat dgn kita. i guess im one of the lucky ones yg tak dpt evil stepmom. tapi kalau dia evil pun dia mesti kena dgn kita jugak…muahahaha.but i told my father, aku tetap anak bongsu dia! heheh kesian u dpt that woman but u dah kahwin so ok lah. can choose not to bother abt her cuz not staying together mah! cheer up gf, insyaallah ur dad will be able to fight back the illness.
Comment by effa — June 16, 2008 @ 6:18 pm
I’m really sorry about what happen babe..chin up k..every cloud has a silver lining *hugssss*
no matter what he did he will always be your loving dad
)
Comment by shireen — June 16, 2008 @ 8:41 pm
awww nat..hopefully ur dad get well soon!! *hugs*
and kau ikot muka bapak! although fair like ur mum ehehehhe
Comment by lynn maharet — June 17, 2008 @ 10:43 am
to effa: yah true. sib baik i dah kawin and ada hubby to protect me from being bullied from that woman. and hey babe, thanks for the sms too.
to shireen: hi shir, thank you so much. *hugs*
to lynn: *hugs*… aku ikut muka bapak ke? i tot i look like my mum?
Comment by natsuki — June 17, 2008 @ 6:58 pm
skin color ur mum..but features more ur dad ah…hehehe
or mebe mata aku terpeleot ahah
Comment by lynn maharet — June 18, 2008 @ 11:04 am
to lynn: takde lah cam gitu sampai mata ko terpeleot. LOL. ok lah. kalo ko kata muka aku macam bapak aku, maka begitu lah muka aku ikut muka bapak. hooookayyyy!! heheheeh
Comment by natsuki — June 18, 2008 @ 1:26 pm