I hardly meet my siblings and i always tried to make an attempt to go over their place whenever they invited me for some small celebrations, for instance, birthday party. I am not ashamed to say that I am much more closer with my in-law’s side rather than my own family. Of course, nobody wished to have a one sided family affair. But at times, you really have no choice but to adapt to a new environment and learned to appreciate them while you can.

The only family who never stop caring for me is my mother. She never failed to cook for me every weekend and will go to the extend of delivering her home-cooked meal to my place. She travelled by bus from Q’town to Old Airport Road. She will helped me with the house chores and made coffees for my husband. I think she loves her son in law rather than her own daughter because she always give first priority to my husband, like, she will cook my husband’s favourite food and etc…. hehehehe..how sweet!

Anyway, back to the story. It was Sarah Sajwa & Safa Alisha’s birthday. And the clever me bought the wrong gift to the wrong kids. You see, my eldest brother have 3 kids, Sarah, Sufi & Safa. And i thought that it was Sarah & Sufi’s birthday. Hahaha…So i bought 2 gift for Sarah & Sufi. When i came there, my sister in law told me it was not Sufi’s but it was Safa. Lol! Ok fine, i know that you guys are getting confused with the names. It doesn’t matter. Because at the end of the day, we were all having fun and they got the prezzies.

Shibly at the void deck, getting ready to meet his cousins and nephews.

As usual, Shibly doesn’t seems to be interested mingling with other kids. There were times where Shibly was being too over friendly with people. He would say HELLO to them and giving them his ‘oh-im-so-cute’ face. He’s a bit kepala angin lah. Not sure who he inherits it from. *hint hint* But most of the time, he prefers to be at his own world and stick with the adults. I think he is still at the verge of ’senang kena bully’ because most of the kids out there were bigger than him. From what i can see is that, he doesn’t retaliate when he was being pushed or shoved by other kids. My poor son. He will just whine a bit when he was being pushed. Kesian tau dia. The only time that i saw him retaliated when he was in a very bad mood. There was once he scolded my friend’s son because that poor kid was trying to be friendly with him and since Shibly was very moody due to lack of sleep, he almost beat up that poor kid but was unsuccessful. Hee hee.

Sometimes i am not sure if i should worry about these things. I just feel that i shouldn’t teach my son to retaliate whenever someone bullies him because they are kids after all. I mean, what does kids know? You can’t beat them right? When the time is right, maybe i should teach him the correct way of retaliating. I don’t want my son to become a ‘hero’ at a very young age. He will then grows up as an arrogant boy. Oh please!

Sarah Sajwa, my beautiful nephew. She was mesmerized with my beauty outfit(lol!) . It looks like i was the only one yang feeling² celebrity at the place. I was a bit embarassed though cause no one really dressed up, except for ME! waduh waduh, over sungguh sekali auntie kamu ni ye. Saraj kept asking me where i bought this dress lah, itu lah, ini lah. So cute!

With my eldest brother and Safa, Shibly, Sarah, Sufi and my cousin (damn, i forgot her name! ok her name is Aishah!)

It seems that i lack the update of my son’s well-being. I remembered that i used to update about his well-being when he was still a baby. It’s not that my son is not progressing but i feel that there is nothing much to update at this stage. He can say few words and yada yada yada, nothing special or very ‘on’ punya toddler lah. I mean, i am not the kind of mother who are very detailed with the progress of my son. I knew some mothers are like that. They are proud to share what their kids can do at their age. Which mothers don’t right? As for me, I rather people to judge my son when they see him personally. But of course not the kind of people who just lashed out their tongue and say something stupid about my son lah. That kind of person sure kena beating punya. Heheheh. I am just contented that Shibly is a well behaved boy.

Ok. It’s time to sleep. More peekture will be updated in my facebook, itupun kalau ada time lah ye. Night!

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